Marriage is a beautiful part of our lives. When two people get married it is not only them who begin a new relationship but their families too. For both, Bride and Groom, to be happy it is very important that their “In-Laws” are happy too. Be it love marriage or arranged overall happiness of both the families is very important. Here comes the point where girls have to impress their mother’s in law and boys have to impress their father’s in law. So the question is how to impress your father in law?
How to Deal with Father in Law after Marriage
For boys impressing their father’s in law is very important as the happiness of their wives lies in that. Every woman is her father’s princess so for every girl, it is very important that their father loves her husband. So it is the men’s duty (whether they like it or not) to impress their father in law. So here are the best 5 ways in which you can impress your father in law.
The most basic and the most important way is to show respect. To deal with a difficult father in law is to show him the respect that he deserves (and secretly expects from you). You have to show him that you respect the way he was strong whenever his daughter or his family needed him. The way he brought up his daughter.
Make his Princess Your Queen
To make your father in law love you is to take care of his daughter better than anyone. You have to show him that daddy’s little princess is a queen now. You have to prove that you are worthy of her and can keep her happy her entire life. You have to make it clear that you are the best choice for her (especially if it is a love marriage).
Fathers are possessive about their daughters. So sometimes they tend to be rude to hide the fact that they are scared that their daughter is with someone new. They best way to deal with a rude father in law is showing patience and slowly removing and clearing any doubt he has regarding you. Be patient and prove it to him that you are no stranger and you understand his daughter’s need just as well as he does.
Another thing you can try is to give importance to things he cares about. Say the most he is concerned about is her medical condition then you should pay attention to it too (although she may be completely healthy). There may be family customs and tradition that you might think are boring but are important to him so do them with dedication.
Always try to bring a smile on your father in law’s face. For that; doing funny stuff, maintain a jolly environment at home, crack jokes, make delicious food, etc. These tips to impress your father in law may seem boring or may take time but they are effective and results are positive.
A man’s father in law gives him the most precious person in his life to him, his daughter. That daughter would change your entire life. So keeping your father in law and your wife happy is the best you can do for them.